Is flirting fun, harmless, and at times meaningless for you? Playful flirts tend to be extroverts who enjoy flirting for attention and favours with a gift for unintentional flirting. Unlike playful flirts, you’re always aware of flirtation. You have a way with your body — read up on body language — and you’d probably say you’re a good flirt. You know what you want, and you know how to get it. Most women hate catcalls, but you find nearly any unsolicited male attention a turn-off.